I have something unique to show you today...
These are The three steps of falling in love.
They are completely legit, no shenanigans here.
Okay - first -
STEP 1) Find a complete stranger. Well, you don't NEED a complete stranger, but it helps if you haven't known each other long. We seem to be more conditioned to fall for someone we haven't got any pre-existing judgments about..
STEP 2) Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives for half an hour.
STEP 3) Then, stare deeply into each other's eyes without talking for four minutes.
Yes, that's four whole minutes. Which is a lot longer than you might think until you actually DO it.
You'll find yourself softening and opening up to them on a very deep level.
You might find yourself in disbelief about this process - or even saying: "Dude, you made this up...!"
Well, as it turns out, this experiment was performed more than 20 years ago.
The psychologist - Arthur Aron - succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory...
It works so well. Several of his test subjects fell for each other and one got married.
BUT here's the big question - do you know
HOW you'd do this with the guy you want?
Because, quite frankly, most women don't really understand that second step very well.
"Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives..."
The truth is, you have to know WHAT to reveal to him, and how to get him to reveal his details to YOU.
To fully open a man up requires you to know how to get inside his head.
We've made a video about what a man needs to feel in order to fall in love like this.
It's the missing step from Dr. Aron's formula for love - and it's the reason that he didn't manage to get ALL his test subjects to fall in love.
It's something called the Hero Instinct - and it's inside every man, ready to be awakened.
We'll explain it to you here:
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