Everyone knows how to kiss and you know that, right? So, how hard can it be? Want to know how to kiss good so that you can get things steamed up with your guy? It is easy to learn the basic mechanics of smooching. It is actually well-known. You don't have to read the books to do so. However, making it sensual actually requires more than the basics. You need to do more action. So how do you do that?
1. Think that lip-locking is like dancing.
Think it that way except the only thing that's focused is your lips. Like dancing, there are so many variations to it. It can be done by passionately mashing one's tongue to the other. Others do it with a bit of gentle nibbling. There are also people that don't like tongue action. It actually depends on the couple. What you need to do is to identify your common ground. You need to know which kind of kiss best suits the both of you.
2. Think of nothing else.
Don't get too tense. Don't feel too anxious. Don't worry too much. Do not think about the tongue action. It would be really awkward for you if it's in your head. You must not think about it. You shouldn't be too conscious. What you should do instead is to let your mind set free. If your mind leads you back to thinking that you are not kissing the right way and all that then think of your beau. Think as to why you fell in love with him.
3. There's more to the tongue.
It's not always about your tongue playing with his. You can feel your partner with the use of your lips. That's just one way. There are other things that you can do. You can do some nibbling. You can play with his lips. There are so many things you can do, the sky is the limit.
4. Don't think that it always leads to sex.
Well, most of it leads to sex. You shouldn't expect that it is going there. You know why? Kisses are more passionate if the tongue action is only up to that. It is more pleasurable because you are only doing that. Cherish the moment you have. It's time that you let your sensations get through your thoughts. Be carried away with the sudden gush of emotion. Every once in awhile, it would be nice if your emotions are placed into the movements that you have.
5. Don't let your hands get stiff.
It would be more awkward if you kiss and you just let your hands rest in your lap. Make your hands move. It would be nice if you touch him sensually. You can put it in his head. You can massage his scalp. That's a good thing because there would be a sudden rush of his blood to his brain. It would help him get all steamed up. You could also run your fingertips in his neck. You can stimulate him sensually in that way. If you are in bed with him, you can caress his body slowly and smoothly like as if you are giving him a massage.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: How To Kiss Good To Get Things Steamed Up
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