When it comes to love, you get what you give. Love yourself first before you can expect others to love you back.
Admittedly, your insecurities get in the way at times. You hone in on all your weaknesses instead of taking pride of your strengths. You need to celebrate each day of your life, even if some of the times things get difficult. Life can be trying, but everyone has his or her own burden to carry.
More importantly, know that you're worth so much more. Take pride in who you are and what you have because you've worked hard to achieve so many things in life. You may not succeed in every endeavor, but this doesn't mean that all hope is lost.
It's time to take back what's yours and to look forward to what you can make of your future. You have so much potential in you. As long as you have the strength to get out of bed each day, you can create a future of your dreams.
Getting Out of the Rut
It's okay to feel depressed every now and then. Yes, you need to sulk some of the times. Cry for all your failures but refuse to let your emotions rule you. Just know that if you had everything handed to you on a silver platter, you'll never get to really appreciate your blessings.
Feelings of satisfaction come when you're able to overcome barriers. It's necessary to know that there are also good times in store and that it's all up to you to change things for the better. After you're done with all the whining, make a promise to yourself to do better. Don't dwell too much on all the pain because you've already done that. Instead, summon the strength to push forward.
Go Out with People Who Appreciate You
Admittedly, you do meet toxic people along the way. Don't let them get to you. They're also dealing with their own issues.
Then, there are the successful ones. Don't measure yourself against them. Rather, see them as your inspiration and recognize your own uniqueness. Success can be defined in so many ways. What works for some may not always work for you.
Focus on what you have and stop comparing yourself to those whom you think are better. Set realistic goals instead because you can achieve more when you're aware of what you're capable of. Take time to enjoy life. Pretty soon, you'll attract partners who'll appreciate you for being you.
The ultimate secret to being happy with your relationships is to take time to do the things you love most. Because you'll be surprised at how this simple decision can give you back the energy that's been depleted by all that negativity.
Take a look at everything you have. Every single blessing counts. The little things are just as important as the big things. This is when you start rearranging your priorities.
Work hard at improving every single thing a step at a time. If you need to alter some aspects in your life, go ahead and do it. Just make sure you do all these for you, and not for someone else. The change could actually be refreshing.
Then soon enough, you'll get to see how life starts to unfold. Love is just around the bend, but you will only meet it if you look inside first.
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